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Hurting again

My ex's new g/f telephoned me again yesterday.

She said they broke up 2 weeks ago.  That she'd had concerns about him and speaking to me had confirmed her doubts.  The ex is not accepting that he caused the problems and is blaming me saying that i poisoned her.  While she was ill in bed he was asking her for money and kept texting instead of leaving her to rest. 

She said he is drinking a lot and has not got anything nice to say about me. He's saying he "loved me like a mum" never wants to see me again, that he hates me and is adiment that we split up 3 months before we did and he didn't have to tell me!!!!!!

And a week after splitting with the gf he's with someone new! So looks like he just goes from 1 girl to the next.

The worst part was she said shes caught something from him and 3 weeks later he still hasn't gone to the drs to get checked and also to call and tell me.  He said he doesn't f*ing care if i get it,  doesn't f*ing care if i fall ill, doesn't f*ing care if it kills me. 

Whats with all the hatred?  I loved/cared/supported/stood by him and helped for 3 years!  I've not done a single bad thing to him so why is he being so nasty?






Posted: 08/28/2014 1:58 AM

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Well not homeless anymore got an apartment its bare but its mine sleep on the floor but its mine i have a lamp and am-fm radio , im moving up conidering i just gou out . The Lord is good.

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