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AskanAddict.com is intended to provide addiction support and advice in a non-judgmental way so that the addict or anyone else that's been affected by an addict will know there are many who understand and eliminate the feeling of being alone. Ask an Addict knows it may be hard to talk with family and friends as many times they just don’t understand. Many have fractured those important relationships in life during active addiction. When it comes to seeking information, likeness, and establishing a strong recovery program who better to ask then someone who has been there! At Ask an Addict we listen and learn, together. Whether your an addict, a recovering addict or have been affected by an addict, we all have that common denominator of addiction.

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Questioning my reaching out
I'm back. Last I wrote, my son had gotten out of rehab and starting smoking crack again in just a few days. The beat has gone on as before, until a week and a half ago, when he was arrested. A woman was banging on his door, he wouldn't let her in. A neighbor called the police, who came out. The woman began yelling, "He has drugs in there." The police found the drugs and paraphernalia, took him off to jail, and he posted his own bond of $8,000, and was released, to be arraigned in a couple of weeks. About three weeks ago, I texted him and asked him if he would respond with just a one or two word text if I called him every other day to see if he was okay. I have been doing this every other day, and he has been responding with one or two words, mostly negative, but at least I know he's alive. He doesn't know I know he was arrested, or that I know any details of the arrest. His brother told me, and the rest is public record. My son lives in the south, and I am in Maine, so I don't drive by or do any of the painful things that I did when we all lived in the same town in California. Yesterday, he responded to my text with, "Rehab next week." This will be #7, and it may well be because he thinks the judge will look upon him more kindly if he is showing some attempt at recovery. My question is: Are my texts, asking him if he is okay and done for my peace of mind, hurting him, or enabling him, preventing him from hitting bottom? I am so grateful for his responses, but most of all, I want him to do what he needs to do to get into recovery. I would so appreciate input on this. Thanks, MM

Posted: 08/24/2015 8:50 PM

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still kiking
Well im still here doing fair but still wondering why im still a fool u would think of all the **** I've been trough id be smart by know , so im wondering what is my purpose on this earth . I Keep doing the same crap , I must be retarded or mentally insane . This addiction seems like is winning in my stay on this earth I wish one day before I die I like to see my soul to be free just for me so I can say I have beaten the devil in me. Dog the addict To all my friends here hope you all are doing well.

Posted: 07/19/2015 9:43 AM

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