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Member Since: 09/28/2010
 
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I have been having a relationship for two years with a man that I love who is addicted to crack, Suboxone and other various prescripition drugs such as Xanax, and Seroquel xr when he can get them.He desperately needs to be enrolled at a detox and rehabilitation center but continues to avoid getting help. I would no longer allow him to live with me in late July of 2009. He now lives with a woman who works for a doctor and doesn't nag or argue with him about his addiction. He sees me two to four times a week sometimes staying overnight and still tells me he wants to be with me after he gets clean. I am giving up hope.     An update:   I recently stopped seeing him for six weeks, but then "fell off the wagon" right before Thanksgiving. Now I am back to square one and as of this past Monday morning, Nov.29, 2010 I'm not responding to his calls or texts. I just hope he doesn't show up at my house unannounced like he has in the past. I've been thinking about getting a protective order, since I've had a psychologist who specializes in criminology tell me that the man I have been involved with for over 2 yrs. is more than likely a sociopath in addition to being addicted to drugs, sex and pornography. The psychologist is currently assisting the family of the woman this man is currently living with. I am helping with the process of getting this man out of her life too. She hasn't paid her rent or car insurance (her mother owns the house and holds the policy on the cars)  for 4 months. The woman even tried to add his car to the mother's policy. He has managed to isolate her from her family and friends. He threw her 19 yr. old daughter out of the house and forbade her to drive her mother's two cars. He uses crack in the home where the 13 yr old son lives also. Her son has been accused of stealing things from him (by this man); we fear he was trying to use those tactics to get money out of her. The boy's grades have suffered and he has been sneaking out at night and not attending school sometimes. They get rid of him on the weekends so they can be alone, and the boy gladly stays at a friend's house or his grandparent's place. The son has witnessed this man rage and the grandmother has heard it over the phone. I personally have felt and witnessed his rages in person. He is abusive. The grandmother said her grandson was not like this before the man became a part of her daughter's life. There were not the family problems a year ago that exist today. He moved his stuff into the daughter's former room and parks his car in the garage because he made room for his vehicle by getting rid of a lot of the woman's belongings.He manages every part of her life. He tried the same tactics on me, I just got wise and never allowed him to move in with me. He is a scourge of the worst kind. He has lied to me, stole from me and cheated on me. I know he currently lies and cheats on her too. I pray that the mother is able to swiftly evict him since she owns the house and there is no lease agreement..She is in the process of learning how to do it. In October he fell through her attic floor landing in the laundry room and injured himself badly enough to go to the ER. He frequents the attic routinely listening for noises and voices, he suffers from drug induced auditory disturbances. He walked around my attic as recently as this past Sunday night. Goodbye for now.



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